My boyfriend is making a big deal because I dyed my hair. What should I do?

My boyfriend is making a big deal because I dyed my hair. Now he wants to leave me. I was joking around saying I was going to cut my hair on day. He was like no your not going to cut your hair. Like two days later I found this color that I liked at a store. When I left the store he called and I said I was about to get my hair dyed. He started trippin' and overreacting. So I went home and when the lady was putting it on my hair he called me. He said are you for real I said yes she is putting it on now. Then he called me selfish for doing it because he like my natural color. He also said I should have called him while I was at the store so he could've talked me out of buying it. We are both 15 years old and he wants me to committ to him. But now he wants to leave me because I dyed my hair. What should I do. Let me remind you we both love each other. Thanks

My boyfriend is making a big deal because I dyed my hair. What should I do?

You both are young and immature.

My boyfriend is making a big deal because I dyed my hair. What should I do?

please.. he is not ur mother

My boyfriend is making a big deal because I dyed my hair. What should I do?

tell him to shut up and get over it

My boyfriend is making a big deal because I dyed my hair. What should I do?

Baby RUN. You don't ever want a man to control you. You do what ever you want with YOUR hair.

My boyfriend is making a big deal because I dyed my hair. What should I do?

15 is a time to experiment so i think you should have dyed your hair is that is what you wanted

if he can not handle that simple change in life, he is not the one for you

My boyfriend is making a big deal because I dyed my hair. What should I do?

If he's already got the mindset that he can boss you around, and make decisions like that for you, he will be a bad bf to have. Jealous type. Controlling type. Temper type.

My boyfriend is making a big deal because I dyed my hair. What should I do?

okay if u want to dye ur hair i dont know how ur hair is his property plus why does he care is it because he doesnt like ur apperance cuz ur hair shouldnt have anything to do with ur relation ship

My boyfriend is making a big deal because I dyed my hair. What should I do?

no mean to be rude or n ething, but if the guys telling u he'll leave you just because YOU chose to do something with YOUR own body...that's not love hun. which proves that ur too young to know what love is.

My boyfriend is making a big deal because I dyed my hair. What should I do?

LEAVE HIM! cuz i bet the only thing he liked about u was ur hair

My boyfriend is making a big deal because I dyed my hair. What should I do?

he shouldn't not love you for just dying your hair. if it was true love, he would love you no matter what. find someone else better than him that see's whats inside not out. hope that helps or if you dont like that then talk to him and tell him what i just said. =) good luck

My boyfriend is making a big deal because I dyed my hair. What should I do?

DUMP HIM! HE's already trying to control you.It's your to do whatever you want with it.

My boyfriend is making a big deal because I dyed my hair. What should I do?

Love is a funny thing.

Don't you think that someone who loved you would love you no matter what colour hair you had???

I think so.

Let the boy leave you. You will mend your broken heart and avoid years of abuse from this guy. He is already beginning to be controlling which usually gets worse and leads to any form of abuse - physical, mental, emotional, verbal... you name it.

Please please take the advise of someone who has seen this before. Little things like this only lead to bigger ones.

Please don't let another person ever tell you how to live your life (hair colour or anything else).

My boyfriend is making a big deal because I dyed my hair. What should I do?

Uhh...seriously. This is YOUR hair here, not his. If he doesn't like it, then screw him. Or if you want to test him to see if he really means it, then tell him to get over it or YOU'RE going to lose HIM. Seriously any guy that doesn't respect your decisions can be replaced. Plus, you're only 15. There are so many more guys out there for you. Don't stress out too much over it.

My boyfriend is making a big deal because I dyed my hair. What should I do?

Umm, leave him

He is showing the controlling side of his nature. He is scared you are dying your hair because (in his eyes) you want other guys to look at you

At 15 this is a scary trait. Imagine in 3 years - he will be saying what you should wear, how u should act, which friends u should hang out with

Tell him if he is that shallow, then he is welcome to go. I bet he doesnt. You need to set the rules now, you are not an object that he can control - you can do what u want and you are strong enough that even if other guys want you - you choose him.

I guarantee he will not leave you - but if he does you are well rid of him. If he loves you like u say a change pf hair color should have no effect - he doesnt love your hair alone surely???

My boyfriend is making a big deal because I dyed my hair. What should I do?

HA.

Sorry, I don't mean to make your relationship a comedy, but his reaction is outrageous. I mean, COME ON! He obviously doesn't love you that much. You guys should be able to keep a relationship, no mattter the looks. Tell him that you should be able to do what you want with yourself (aside from cheating), and if he loved you, he would get over the fact that you dyed your hair. I mean, SERIOUSLY! He doesn't love you. What kind of loving guy would break up with you for changing your hair color? My god. He obviously just liked you for your looks.

Sorry if I was a bit rough....but I'm a bit caught up in my own issues....

But yea, tell him that he should get over your hair color, otherwise he won't have anyone to leave

My boyfriend is making a big deal because I dyed my hair. What should I do?

Please, I say this in love. I am not criticizing, but i am only trying to help and speak from experience. i dont want to sound negative, but you need to lose this loser. How are you selfish for dying your own hair?

Last time I checked, the hair was on you head and not his.

Furthermore, he doesnt have to approve YOUR decision. Iam sure you have had one daddy, you darn sure dont need another.

Hes just gonna have to deal with this. If he will leave you for something as insignifigant as your hair, imagine what he will do when you two are married and have kids. He will probably cheat on you and say its your fault for gaining baby weight.

At 15 he should not be acting so controlling. Sorry to tell you this, but its better someone say this to you now before you find yourself asking his permission to go to the grocery store. He might even become abusive. I worked at a women's center and I know from the cases we've dealt with, it starts out with the man telling you what you can and cannot do. Then they will make you feel bad or feel dumb for making decisions that they dont agree with. You have the final say in your haircut, hair color, clothing, and anything else.

Unless he is paying for it, or carried you for 9 months in his womb, his opinion is for the birds. I know you love him, but make him kiss your butt on this one.